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The disc jockey of Su打綠, Xin Yi, has officially announced her separation from her husband, Qian Weiming, following a decade-long marriage. Recently, Xin Yi and her husband appeared at the marriage registry office to sign the separation documents.

A reportage from the Taiwan media captured the entire process of their divorce. Xin Yi entered the marriage from the beginning to the signing just one hour later, and when she stepped out of the door to leave, she was full of joy and happiness.

As an independent and strong mother, Xin Yi finally freed herself from the emotional burden of having an affair with a cheating husband and reconnected with her family.

It is reported that Qian Weiming was the one who initiated the divorce due to infidelity in the marriage.

Despite being unfaithful to her marriage, leaving her husband, and not considering her family and children, Xin Yi had to pay 5000萬 in alimony to her two children for the next 10 years.

Media reports indicate that Xin Yi and her husband's marriage was on the rocks since last year when her husband proposed for divorce. Xin Yi, at the time, chose to stay with her children and family rather than separate.

However, this seven-year marriage has now reached its end, and they officially separated on March 12th after going through the divorce process at the marriage registry.

The trigger for the breakdown of their marriage was Qian Weiming's infidelity. Xin Yi suffered a severe betrayal, although her husband initially sought divorce, Xin Yi refused to separate, and after concluding the divorce agreement, they chose to end their marriage.

Xin Yi had to pay 5000萬 in alimony to her two children for the next 10 years. Additionally, she was not allowed to remarry within a 10-year period.

Good move, it seems that the public is standing with Xin Yi in this case.

早在馨儀發(fā)現(xiàn)老公出軌時，婚姻已經(jīng)出現(xiàn)問題。她曾表達過給老公重新機會的意愿，并透露正在學習如何以家庭為核心來兼顧工作。我們最關(guān)注的是兩個孩子能快樂成長。

當時的馨儀是為家庭承受委屈，選擇了原諒丈夫。

但單為明似乎已經(jīng)做好了離開的決定，他感覺在外面找到了另一種幸福，最終馨儀為他放棄婚姻。

不過也有媒體猜測，他們婚姻的問題不在于第三者，而在于價值觀和個性的差異。

家庭互動中常有女強人與男性的角色差異，再加上雙方事業(yè)上的不順暢溝通，導致婚姻在兩年后開始惡化。

值得注意的是，單為明的朋友曾透露馨儀有語言上的冷暴力，這也加劇了她的心理問題，甚至有過輕生的念頭。

不管如何，兩人最終都未能以家庭為核心來兼顧工作，馨儀最終選擇放手，讓單為明去追求自己的幸福。

辦完離婚手續(xù)后，媒體披露馨儀走出民政局時喜笑顏開，仿佛卸下了一塊重擔。

經(jīng)過長達七年的感情經(jīng)營，擁有兩個孩子后，一個女人不可能輕易放手。這種感情和責任 weighed heavily on her heart.

放下過去，成為彼此最熟悉的陌生人，各自安好，彼此寬慰。

婚姻只是人生的一部分，一個人也可以活出自己想要的模樣。

兩個孩子，不能成為他們成年后的談判籌碼，這種狀態(tài)依然很幸福。